EMBRACING CHANGE

All though life changes our outer being the inner being still feels young without boundaries. It is only when I am playing with my children I realize that the shell is getting older.

Change is inevitable with every year our lives change.  This year we saw our daughter marry and have her first-born.  I remember being deeply in love with my husband and the night he proposed and yet this was 34 years ago.  Oh how I have changed!  When I look in the mirror I can still see that girl who said yes!  All though life changes our outer being the inner being still feels young without boundaries.  It is only when I am playing with my children I realize that the shell is getting older.

Age is not always a welcome visitor.  Vanity of what and who we perceive who we are changes with each passing year.  I guess that is why we need to focus on who we are today.  Today I am a better person because I have accepted I cannot do this life without Christ.  This was the best change I made.  I will forever be thankful for accepting Jesus as my savior and my sister-in-law and best friend Lorie who was there who prayed with me as I accepted Jesus.  Embracing this change has been a lot like to evolution of me going from a young woman to the older woman I am today.

When we decide to accept and be thankful for what God has done in our lives it becomes really fun to see where that change will take me.  I am set apart in the body of Christ.  But being set aside does not mean that the challenges and changes I will embrace will always be fully understood at the time of these changes.  We have to open our hearts up to what God has in store.  So Embrace change today

 

A BIT ABOUT ME-

A few things my readers my not know about me as I love food! When I travel I always research out the best places to try. I live in the State of Nebraska where we are proud of corn fed beef!

I awoke to the cell going of this morning. Haylie our middle daughter was letting me know that she was going to stay in town a bit and catch up with an old friend who is visiting and that she would need me to watch our grandson Jayson. I am not admitting it to her, but I never mind the time I have with our little man. The plan was to get out of bed and clean the house and spend time in fellowship. I still have been doing this, I feel like I took a trip the UK this morning, I was researching the category of FOOD on WordPress.com

A few things my readers my not know about me as I love food! When I travel I always research out the best places to try. I live in the State of Nebraska where we are proud of corn-fed beef! However being a survivor of a heart attack I have worked hard to cut back on this and eat more fish and poultry.

I actually love the challenges of trying new foods. I am a cook book fanatic and a Pinterest freak! I adore both the book in my hand and the online beauty of the recipes. I am very interested in how to eat for health. However giving up all goodies is a tough thing too. If you have been reading my blog I set four goals for 2018 in my post 2018 FOUR SET- GO!  One of the 4 set goals was to cut refined sugars out of my diet and to get healthier in 2018.    2015-2017 was not good years for us personally. We lost family members and my husband was diagnosed with cancer.  SO I thru myself into work! 

As well as trying to control life instead of relying on God. My life has not been that of tranquility. But I am not looking back now!  Enough! 2018 is all about going forward and seeing positive things happening!

the four goals I set are huge goals. I am not the type of person who sets goals and thinks I have arrived. It is about gaining success in an areas I am focusing. I think 4 areas is enough. What makes me happy is writing this blog. I am a twin and I must say y sister is the bomb. Cindy is a brilliant woman who is truly my rock! I can always rely on her to tell me just what she thinks! No holding back! Another bit about me. I am short! 64 inches tall is not tall! So being fat does not look good at a short woman! Another reason to go to the gym. Another reason to walk a lot in my job. Another reason to eat fish!

As I write this blog the smell of last nights cabbage burgers are still in the air. These are a treat for my family. Home made bread filled with cabbage, onions and good Nebraska corn-fed beef burger blended together to make pockets of pure yum!   I am that woman who can taste something and without a recipe recreate it.  I love to adapt my favorite cakes into granola’s that we then sell thru our granola company. 

Today I am working on German Chocolate Cake Granola.  the goal is to make it taste great with no refined sugars.  We use a lot of coconut sugars and natural stevia in our blends I do not like fake sugars.  We use real honey and maple as well along with natural sweetness of fruit.  I will post later how this one turns out.

Best selling right now is our Carrot Cake granola. We ship a ton of this!

Well enough for now!  I will be posting later on the success of this new granola.

BEING BRAVE

I was thinking of all the brave people who triumph over great obstacles.  David’s own people could not believe that he would defeat the Giant Goliath and help his people take back their land.  And yet he did!  His own brothers begged him to not go thru with this.

Yet David had prayed and was encouraged and sure of his decision.  No one believed in David!  Yet he was sure of his decision. He was brave against all obstacles. He was small, He was a Sheppard Boy,  He was small, He was not a warrior, He was laughed at,  He was told that he would die!  Yet Goliath mocked him from a far, He even proclaimed to be God!  He did not believe this little guy would knock him down and that the sword you demanded his servant to get would be the same sword David would use to take off his head with!  David was victorious because he knew that God was with him.  He knew that he would destroy the giant and that he would take back his land.

Being brave did not just happen.  It was his faith!  David knew that God would deliver him!  In my life I have had brave moments!  However never as brave as what God called David to do!  He was in line with what God called him to do!  d58f4ce1f2fbd3254bfa958ec9e2bb42

No matter our need for bravery God will be with us!  Find comfort in knowing that God has a plan for your life!

THE TRY OF IT ALL

I believe that we all need someone in our corner. Who will be strong enough to tell us that we are wrong! Strong enough to fire us when it is necessary. Strong enough to be there from a distance asking them to consider a different approach.

Have you ever tried to help another and they just don’t see it! They act like they are on the same page only to not care about what you are trying to do! I have been working with a young man who is truly not helping himself. As an employer I want to retain employees by getting them on board with our goals.

Well just like that employee God gives us children as well. I can recall several conversations with my children about what they were doing or proposing that I did not agree with. So I would try to influence their thinking by asking them to consider my opinions. However that was never going to work!   Because it would mean they would have to change their opinion. It is all about trying that becomes more of a compromise that will help both of us. A give and take!

Both scenarios are about two young people.  My insight is from life!   They have not lived to see failings.  They both are still happy to rely on their families to get their needs met.  The young man is not willing to change his conduct that will eventually lose him his employment.  The child who thinks she is correct will find out she is not once she is on her own struggling with the reality of her life.

We can only try to get others to see the reasons why we still try!  I believe that we all need someone in our corner.  Who will be strong enough to tell us that we are wrong!  Strong enough to fire us when it is necessary.  Strong enough to be there from a distance asking them to consider a different approach.

Look at your life relationships and see if you see who has been the brave ones in your life!  Who said “No you are wrong!”  the Bible teaches that God cares for us.  He will hold us accountable.  “In an outburst of anger I turned my back on you but only for a moment.  It’s with lasting love that I am tenderly caring for you.”  Isaiah 54:8

As the above scripture reminds,  we must know that he God has an opinion of our choices and he will be stead fast in his love to bring us back from our own errors.


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Snow covered corn fields are a regular site when it comes to living in the State of Nebraska.  Our worlds revolve around farming and railroads.  In my career I have driven past this old church several times.  It is as if it is left there as a testament to the past.

Setting back  with no sign of a road anymore.   Just the shell of what used to be.  Sunday Pot luck’s,  Bible studies,  moments of birth’s and wedding celebrations.  Along with the passing of loved ones. the past of community.

The memories of this place,  I am sure someone holds.  We forget that just like this building we deteriorate and one day we will leave behind remittance of our lives.

Everything we are is being built up or torn down!  As I grow toward God in my daily walk, it is evident that I have to think before I act.  I have to wait on Gods wisdom.  I have to be realistic about my own mortality.   My life will end and tears will flow from those who have been part of my story.  My story has been one of non belief to accepting Jesus as my savior.  He took my sin and has me whole!

When we are forgiven it is done!  the Bible reminds us not to focus on the past but to mindful of the day at hand.

“Lift up my eyes to the mountains.  Where does my help come from?”  “My help comes the Lord, the maker of heaven and earth. ”  Psalm 12:1-2

THE PING THAT MAKES THE HEART SING

This morning I awoke to my cell pinging!  Not a ping but pinging a lot.  I got the phone to see someone who started reading my blog was reading it in Nigeria.  Now this is why my heart is singing praise and thanks this morning.  Thanks Emeka Ofili you truly blessed my day!   I don’t normally stop what I am doing in the morning to write!  But this morning I felt compelled to mix my morning up because of the sounds coming from a phone!

When I started my blog I had no idea who would read it or if I could actually have anyone want to come back to see what Good Life For Half was about!

I learn each day about what is important.  A year ago I was consumed in sin!  I was living on the road trying to manage two jobs and not beating myself up daily about what I needed to do!  I was running from my husband’s health issues.  Bryan in May of 2015 had cancer on his face that turned out to melanoma.  In  stead of giving this to the Lord to work out.  I became very afraid of the future.  Satin loves to have us rely on our flesh.

I was being very carnal by not trusting that God would get us thru this without me taking on two full-time jobs.  This was not of God!  It was of me not trusting that God had Bryan’s plan!  We sometimes do not realize what we are doing at the time but God did not take long to reveal himself to me!  I continued to ignore my father and that sin resulted in me steeped in sin.  I stayed in this sin until God brought me back.

As I grow in my walk I realize I cannot just make my own decisions.  It has to be God’s will!  We are to pray and wait on God to direct our steps.  God does reveal himself.  As a follower of Jesus we will naturally grow towards what God wants us to do!  My husband reminded me recently that our heart and hands need to be in the business of God’s people in how we conduct our lives.  My character has to be in line with what God has planned for my life.

So my decisions had outcome that truly was for the good of me.  God took hold of my heart and did what was best for me.  At the time I did not realize that he was removing me from things that were not in the best interest of what God has planned for me.

Today I look forward to walking with my God.  Realizing that it is not my job to worry about anything and to focus on what God has in store for me.

Sin will make you sick, it will keep you from fellowship with God.  Today I am still working toward my faithful walk with him.

“Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, And whose hope in the Lord.  For shall be like a tree planted by the waters, which spreads its roots by the river, And will not fear when heat comes; But its leaf will be green and will not be anxious in the year of drought, Nor will cease from yielding fruit.”  Jeremiah 17:7-8

Let us to courageous today in God’s loving plans!  My God has taken me on amazing life adventures as he has revealed his true love for me.  What a great day to sing thanks!

Clocks & Coffee

Today I choose to stop and to reflect!

Good Morning WordPress!  As I start my day in the great State of Nebraska.  I am pleased to say the day started out with the alarm clock going off at 5 AM and me hitting the snooze button several times.  I am not a good morning person!  It is not a natural part of my nature!  I finally called it at 5:37 AM and started the day with thanks to God for this day!  As I waited on my morning splurge,  of Keurig Starbucks coffee of caramel to brew in the kitchen,  it dawned on me how fortunate I am.  I wake to home that is warm.  We live in a place that is filled with history and we have seen so many great things happen right here.   Along with the saddest moments of our lives.

This home was where we have brought into the world our children, played with our grandchildren, celebrated birthdays & holidays.  Where we celebrated our children’s life successes.  Where we hug one another and where we are blessed to be.

I hate that I do not spend more time within the walls of this place!  It seems as if we are running in and out!  We both have to commute into our jobs daily.  It is rare these days that the clock and coffee are things of rushing out the door to meet the world.

Most mornings I get a moment to reflect at home.  It is rare indeed.  Wishing you a day of clocks and the best cup of coffee!

 

It was something was calling me to slow down.  I think we all can take time to do this very thing.  When I am happy I want to get home to share with my family my victories.  When I am defeated I want to go home to be greeted with love and get thru my defeats with my loved ones.  When I am hungry for real food I want it from home!

Today is about thankfulness and being right where I need to be for me!  Take time to just be!  The world can wait on me to greet it later!

 

MY LOVE OF THE GILMORE GIRL’S

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Recently I have started watching the Gilmore Girls.  I normally do not get into a sitcoms but I have been hooked on  Lorelei  and Rory from the first episode it is obvious of the love the characters have for one another.  How they  support one another’s dreams.

As the story is written Lorelei gets pregnant and leaves home to have the child.  the story starts with Rory 16 wanting to attend this prestigious school so she can get the education so she can get into Harvard to become a journalist.  Lorelei is working as a Hotel Manager.  The story then adds the wealthy parents of Lorelai  who have never known their grand child.  Lorelai cannot afford the tuition for the prestigious school so she is left with having to go to her parents.  The grandfather has no intentions of withholding this opportunity from the grand-daughter.  However the grandmother decides that the debt should have stipulations of every Friday Night dinner and all holidays and birthdays.  Reluctantly she agrees to the terms.

As the story unfolds the characters grab your heart.  I would love to live in a community with people who care about their town, care about tourism and everyone shows up to the town hall meetings. Everyone comes to your daughters birthday parties!  Everyone cares about one another.

It is funny how I tend to be a late to the actual airing of sitcoms.

This sitcom along with the Golden Girls were canceled way be before I ever was a fan!  Later in life,  I found both!   I have been a fan ever since.  We value things, experiences, books and even television series when they find us.  they become a part of our life experience.

We want to get to know how the next chapter goes in the character’s lives!  We plan to watch and cheer them on.  Just as we cheer them on we are making a decision to be present and watch their stories play out!  What if we were to value our on stories?

Planning time in reading the Bible or spending time daily in prayer and meditation.  I love the Gilmore Girl’s!  I love entertaining myself!   Satin loves when we have no time to grow in our relationship with God!  Be careful of what takes your time because it can be detrimental to your relationship with God.  All things in moderation is good advice.

Turn off your favorite series on television, Put down the cell phone,  Go to your inner place and read your Bible and spend time in prayer.  Pray and be thankful.  Life is what we make it.  We only get so many moments.  So we have to use our time as we see fit.  I had to recognize that I was letting television keep me from worship.

Life is tough. Entertainment is a way of letting go from our realities.  I still enjoy all the television series.   I just want to entrust that I am spending time in God’s word, spending time in prayer for those I love with a heart of thanks while seeking God in all matters.

“A time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father and the Spirit in truth, for they are the kind of worshipers that the Father seeks.  God is spirit and his worshipers must worship in the spirit and in the truth.”  John 4:23-24

Wishing you all the entertainment in moderation and quality time in God’s word!

 

THE WISH

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As I think  of winter I get excited about Spring.  8 days into January,  tomorrow will be 55 degrees!  How exciting it that the snow could actually melt making the side streets and small town roads could be easier to drive down.  Today I had to take an employee home and it was good I drive an Explorer because I would have not gotten down his road!  I wish I could I be the outdoorsman who likes to hike in snow,  have picnics in the snow and bon fires in the snow.  However I am not that type of person.  I wish I was.

Snow mobiles, sleds and skiing have never been part of who I am.  Winter brings home-made bread,  huge pots of soup made from scratch.  chocolate chip cookies and huge cups of hot coffee.  Watching Netflix and staying in!  Batches of granola baking with vanilla yogurt parfait.   I wish I was a lover of Winter.  I guess I am from a far.

Winter brings the geese from Canada and they are so pretty.  A herd of deer along the North Platte are pretty.  Baking Apple Pies with homemade caramel sauce with homemade vanilla ice cream makes winter better.  The smell of the wood stove in the morning as the day is just starting is comforting.  Sometimes we must be reminded that there is good in things that we might not always see as good.

Winter has always been a season that I have not always appreciated as I should.  The Bible speaks of seasons well sometimes we need seasons to slow us down.  Help us look inwardly and to put things in order.  Winter helps me wait for Spring and it also helps me to learn to be patient.  God needs us to be patient.  To wait upon him and to settle down a bit to understand his love for us his children.  Winter is cold and feels long at times and yet it really is not!  Before we know it Spring will bring promise of flowers, trees blooming, and baby animals in the pastures and meadows.

So I have decided to appreciate this season and be glad in it.  “Remember, our Lord’s patience gives people time to be saved.”  2 Peter 3:9

 

 

HMMM-WHAT-WANT!

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Hmm…..What….?…..Want!  I can only say that because January becomes this thought process of hmm what will this year hold?  What will be and what will happen and what do I want to do or accomplish!

Last year all I did was allow my hope to be striped by caustic people.  I allowed time to be lost over business situations that did left me deeply depressed.  I am still recovering.

God became very big to me.  I will forever be happy for this!  I had no idea how I would get thru it and I was just fine.  Bruised and about fifty grand lighter but so much happier.  What he gave me in place was a new adventure!  A new career!

I am looking forward to spending time with God and growing this year.  I am committed to writing daily this year along with painting.

We all deserve to reinvent ourselves.  A fresh 12 months gives me the perfect template.

Heres to new adventures, and hope that I will not allow to be taken,

“You are the hope for everyone on earth, even those who sail on distant seas!

PSALM 65:58