This Thanksgiving was quite different.  No more family get togethers with Aunts and Uncles.  Just our children!  It is heart breaking to realize the extended family will not know what it is to have meals with Aunts and Uncles who celebrate thankfulness of coming together to appreciate one another.  Our youngest gets very upset when she asks who’s coming for Thanksgiving.

I have raised my children with the emphasis on family gatherings.  Although our table has not seen my siblings rarely at the table for Holidays.  We would see my husbands parents and his sister and children.  Our grandson from Omaha was missed this year.

Traditions are so important.  This year I served my staff at work lunch. My daughters and husband were part of this by cutting the roasted turkey up and bringing it to work for me.  I made cranberry sauce.  We did not celebrate yesterday our Thanksgiving.  We had our celebration today.  As I was leaving my husband this morning, was putting our turkey in the oven and when I came home I found my daughter Haylie has made the pies, had completed all the sides and had dinner on the table by 1 PM.  Kelsey our youngest was so excited because they cooked the meal.  Hope for passing on the traditions was evident as we welcomed our son-in-law to our table.  As we welcomed our little grandson to our table. Those who used to come will be missed.  However the love of our family recipes and love for fellowship will just be different.  Passing traditions serves more than those at the table, it respects those who have shared the tradition prior to us!

Passing thru The Storms

Psalms 59:17 say “You are my strength, I sing praise to you.  God you are my fortress my God on whom I can rely. 


Passing storms in our busy lives.  We go thru so much and we get thru so much!  Question is do you think it is you who gets to go thru it?   I need to be reminded of the answer to these trials and seasons we are in.  One day with a blink and the sound of a trumpet all ears will here and all knees will bend!   Yes I am speaking about Jesus’s return.  What a glorious time for those who have decided.

So the act of balance today is a message of love of others around you, learning to not scream when I am truly hurt and to leave others with kind words of encouragement.  What I do need is to not allow for my heart to be filled with satins games.  I call on my Lord Jesus to rebuke the evil around me and all that I love.  AMEN

I know that my God is an awesome God and is not fair weathered, does not forsake me and that will be here with us thru every trial.  We are never alone.

My heart has to be focused on God first, family and then job!  When any of this is not aligned, you will be out of balance.  Sometimes it takes getting sick, or learning to say no to slow down to get back into balance.  Start the day with God and end the day with God.  Talk to God!  I want to communicate with God all day long.  When he is first all the other things come into alignment.

This past week we encountered some financial issues that made me look at some ways we were doing things.  It was out of this that I found some errors that will save us 600.00 dollars,  I then looked at another service we were paying for and found 70.00 dollars more!  I cut another service entirely that will save us 280.00 dollars a month.  No I want you to know that I did not find these errors! God said no to the 280.00 dollar bill and I agreed.  God said look at these accounts!  I did!

What God gives we are to be good stewards.  I have not been a good steward of what he has provided.  I am working on this and I feel the Lords encouragement.

I am thankful that when I am having a bad day, God is here for me to seek!

Psalms 59:17 say “You are my strength, I sing praise to you.  God you are my fortress my God on whom I can rely.


Are You Demanding?

264fda8c7024c1c59ad405c34d33ea66Do you ever think that you are a demanding person?  No one wants to accept that they are demanding?  We might say that we are just particular.   You might be called high maintenance!  In reality this all comes down to being about ” SELF”  I know this is a tough subject.  However we all at times are demanding and selfish.

We use excuses about why we are the way we are.  The Bible says we are to be kind.  In Psalm 107: 8-9 states “so lift your hands and thank God for his marvelous kindness and for all the miracles of mercy for those he loves. How he satisfies the souls of thirsty ones and fills the hungry with all that is good!”  Ownership is never fun when it is a flaw.  To be more we must do more than make excuses.


What can you do to be more like Jesus!  How can we not be demanding or self centered!  How can we approach life differently that shows others an approach of honor while building up not tearing down.  Take time to ask questions instead of demand.

God knows your needs, seek him in all matters- Noah was told to build an Ark.  His neighbor’s surely thought he was crazy!  yet for 120 years he waited on God.   Noah waited on God.  He did not demand God to send the rain he waited knowing to trust in the Lord.   James 4:10 reminds “Be willing to be made low before the Lord and he will exalt you!”



Love Always Leaves A Mark

New season’s of change.  The weather going from hot too cold.  the tree’s leaves gone from the trees.  Cool mornings and we begin a new month of November.  Time goes so fast.  Today our grandson is 3 months old.  How change is so subtle.  It was yesterday I was brand new Mom. I remember taking pictures of this little girl and being in awe of how pretty she was.  Now this little girl is now a mom starting her life as a wife and mother.  Yet it seems like yesterday.

Some people think they have time.  They will get around to making  decisions.  They can just enjoy the season without planning.  When I was 18 years old.  I was volunteering at Awana with my sister-in-law Lorie.  I was so excited to talk to little kids about Jesus and what we were teaching.  Out of conversation I realized I had not asked Jesus to be my savior.  In a blue Chevette I remember praying for Jesus to forgive me of my sins and come into me life! remember how I felt the Holy Spirit come into my heart.  I cried.  At 18 I had no idea what I actually had really done.  I am now in 50’s and I learn more about my Jesus.

What a glorious day it is to enjoy all the beauty of the seasons.  As I look around I am reminded that God so loved the world that he sent his only begotten son. So that no one should perish and have ever lasting life John 3;16 I feel that this is what captured my heart to want a relationship with Jesus.   What an awesome love that is that he would want to save the entire world!  Not a state, Not a city, Not a country but all of us!

Love always leaves a mark!  If you have ever loved, you know what I am talking about. We need to remember that each passing Season belongs to us.  But if we believe in the great love that God sent into the world named Jesus.  We need to be excited about each day that is given to share with others that this is the day to make the decision.

That simple prayer I made at 18 has given me amazing grace and love has truly left its mark on me.  I hope that I never forget the importance to be glad in this day!  Rejoice and share the great news of salvation.







What’s in it for me?  It is a question that comes up in life.  I was thinking of what Jesus did not ask!  He did not say “what’s in it for me!'” He said what can I do for you!  He came for you and me.  From the beginning God was preparing the world for Jesus.

In today’s society I see the “ME” mentality everywhere from how we are advertised too, to the music we here on the radio and how Hollywood promotes the “Me” mentality.

What’s in it for me to hurt others, tear my loved ones down, being rude toward the person serving me in a restaurant or to the cashier who waits on me? To speak poorly of one another because instead of respecting differences we judge.  Out of emotional and at times,  irrational thinking.  What’s in it for me,  is right out of the “I want it all attitude”.

Me people see themselves before they see others.  The focus is all about them…Emotional gratification is promoted as you have arrived!  Arrived at broken lives, broken dreams, broken careers and broken people who are subject of the me person.

What could it be if we could all say, What can I do for you?  Not worrying about what’s in it for me!  What is important is when we reach out to serve one another.

In Philippians Paul reminds us that we should the following.  Do things for the right reasons.  Regard others as more important than yourself, to look out for the interest of others.  Jesus was a great example of putting others first.  Being selfless to serve one others.

I am challenged to be less me at times as we all are.  Choices we make everyday mean that we can be “What its in it for me in serving others today!  Be selfless and courageous.

What’s in it for me?  Simply peace and joy of being authentic in service to others.



I encourage you to remember each day is a gift.  Treasure this day the Lord had given and remember to be thankful

What is like to be more than you?  Well it can mean so many different things.  As I see it, today I am in my 50’s and the things I have learned to get here have given me life lessons  no class room would have given me.

In my twenties I was self consumed and all about me!  Hard to admit. I was focused on making a career mark.  I pushed myself to be more for others to be proud of me.  All though the person I wanted to be proud of me past away when I was twenty.  This decade taught me a lot I did not really know. It was a time of loss,  personal destruction and an attitude that was not God centered.  It was all about ME-

In my thirties it was about becoming a mother and still trying to find more to hold onto.  Self doubts, defeat, loss and rejection then found me.   I had to learn to stop caring about things outside my circle of life.  I had my family to attend too and still I had to earn a living.  No staying at home to nuture.  Nuturing was done in route to day care, to work,  dinner time and bedtime.  It felt as if I was the invisable women. I got thru this to meet the next chapter!

My forty’s I was filled with false promises of success, health, career, and death.  All of the sudden it was real.  The people that have been part of your journey are sick and passing.  I dealt with my own mortality when I had a heart attack at 45 years of age.  It has been 8 years since that event and I still do not have the stamina like I did then.  I found myself trying to protect my loved ones from my own death.  I watched my sister say good bye to her best friend to death.  I said good bye to my father in law and my mother all before my fifties. I would have career adventures that left my loved ones waiting for me to come back home.  My forties were a time of fear of the future.

Now in my fifties I have dealt with death, career challenges, health and the second generation.  Our tree of life is growing with our grandson being born.   In my fifties I thought would be a time of great freedom.  Money in the bank,  time to work on bucket lists and quiet days spending time doing things I wanted to do.  Thus far It is not exactly the way I saw it.  I miss my mother in law who we lost in February of 2016.  I wish she could see our little grandson.  Ann would have loved him.  She had such a love for babies.

We must take the time we have and value it.  Some people do not get to be in there fifties. Be humble as Jesus told his deciples.  My faith is stronger than ever.  I am thankful even when I have no idea how God will provide an answer, he does!  He does not fail to love me even though I am not young and youthful.  He loves me and is here for me.

I encourage you to remember each day is a gift.  Treasure this day the Lord had given and remember to be thankful for all you have been given.  Being more than you,  means God has plans to prosper you & grow your life.1C5A706B-42A5-4DC3-9D7C-371E66A8D314



Coffee with God,  I love when I start my day with quiet reflection with God.  I try to start my days not in a rush.  Well today is the day the Lord has made.  I will be thankful and give him praise.  Life changes when we stop to be thankful.  My coffee cup time with God on work days starts on my commute. I turn the radio off and I speak to God.  I know that this time is well spent.

2017 has been a tough year.  My Father in heaven has been so much in more my life because I have focused more on picking up my Bible, spending time listening to his word through what I choose to tune my radio too and also thru the use of my blog.

We are still dealing with life struggles. However when I realize that I do not need to be the answer alone.  Seek God in all circumstances. Listen and wait on him.  God waits on us to stop trying to do it our way,  everytime I do it my way I am being deceived.

Deception is what Satin will bring.  I know he sends broken hope.  At first glance it does not look like broken hope.  It will come as Gods grace.  Be careful to be prayerful and take time to seek God in all circumstances.  If it feels to good to be true it probably is!

I am thankful for my failings and for my God who is never-changing.  My hope is not in me.  My faith is in God.  My coffee cup is filled by him, All his love was sent to save a sinner like me.  Jesus is our savior!  Nothing that we go through belongs to us, if we allow God to work in our lives.  Thank you for this day!

I wish you good coffee and time with God today and everyday!  It is the best way to start my day!